A friend’s analysis of relationships is that every relationship
needs a gardener. According to him, two
gardeners can make it; a gardener and a flower can make it; but two flowers
will never make it. Gardeners can't help themselves--it is their nature to try to improve whatever is within their influence to do so. His analysis came to
mind this morning while I was walking my dog past the beautiful gardens of neighbors
Val and Dottie Hawkins. They have not
only beautified their corner of Old Town, they have created and tended
breathtaking borders of iris, roses, and peonies along an adjacent parking lot,
shown in the photo. Really, now, how
many people would do that? And their
gardener ethos is visible in the many boards on which they serve in our
community, the numerous people they have helped, and the wise leadership and
vision they have generously given our city.
Just like relationships, organizations need gardeners—people
who will till and plant and weed and water until the fruits of their labor
materialize. Gardeners are often not the
highest profile individuals in their organizations, yet organizations could not thrive without them. Imagine hiring and
nurturing people who will find potential to be tapped and do whatever is necessary to bring that potential to
bloom.
Identify the gardeners in your organization, connect them
with one another, encourage them, and see what grows. Strive to be more of a gardener than a
flower, looking for ways you can contribute, using untapped resources within
and around you. You will find personal
satisfaction in knowing you have created something beautiful and useful out of very little, regardless of whether others recognize and praise your accomplishment.
Here’s a salute to the unsung heroes of every relationship,
organization, and community—gardeners like Dottie and Val whose nature is to give
more than they take.
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